you've been
meaning to
call your mom
no apps to install. no streaks to break. just one nudge, and a place to write down what she said.
this site is for people who love their moms and forget to call. if your story is harder than that, this probably isn't your place — and we mean that with love.
how it works
three steps. then it's just you and her.
- 1
tell us about your mom
her name, three things you love about her, and the catchphrase she's said your whole life. takes 90 seconds.
- 2
we send the nudge
in your chosen voice — auntie, homie, conscience, or sage — at the spice level you set. quietly, never between 9pm and 9am.
- 3
you actually call. then log it.
the only way to dismiss the reminder is to write down what you talked about. it builds a private journal you'll keep forever.
you can't dismiss
the reminder.
until you log the call.
every other reminder app loses to one tap. ours doesn't have that tap. the only way to make the nudge go away is to write down what you and your mom talked about. it builds your private journal. it changes the math.
honor system. no AI judging your description. you're accountable to you.
mmhmm. i see you. out here living your life, and your mama's just sitting by the phone.
pick your voice
pick the one that sounds like the voice in your head right before you finally pick up the phone.
"Sam. It's been ten days. You think Diane raised you to forget her? Pick up that phone."
Maya Angelou's mother Vivian was a nurse, a merchant marine, and the woman Maya called 'Lady'.
five minutes. one phone call.
she'll talk for thirty. you'll be glad you started it.
start the habitsmall batch for now. when it's full, you'll join the waitlist.